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RIE Principle #4: Freedom to explore child-child interaction

We aim to embed the RIE (Resources for Infant Educarers®) approach into our Preschool rhythm and Educational program. We believe that the more caregivers know about RIE, the better they will be able to connect with their children.

In past posts, we shared information on the first 3 RIE principles of basic trust, environments, and time for uninterrupted play. We’ll now dive into the fourth principle,

Infant – Infant Interaction – freedom to explore and interact with other infants.” (Resources for Infant Educarers®)

We extend this “infant” concept to include the freedom for children of Preschool age to explore and interact with each other.

The RIE approach involves the following 7 basic principles:

  1. Basic trust in the child to be an initiator, an explorer, and a self-learner
  2. An environment for the child that is physically safe, cognitively challenging, and emotionally nurturing.
  3. Time for uninterrupted play.
  4. Infant – Infant Interaction – freedom to explore and interact with other infants.
  5. Involvement of the child in all care activities to allow the child to become an active participant rather than a passive recipient.
  6. Sensitive observation of the child in order to understand his or her needs.
  7. Consistency, clearly defined limits and expectations to develop discipline.
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Our staff RIE Leader Rosie shares the following reflection on this principle, “Children need freedom to explore and to freely chose experiences that enhance their physical, mental and emotional development. Pleasure in the process of exploration and skill acquisition is self-reinforcing. The child is empowered and begins to feel capable of tackling problems alone, rather than constantly expecting an adult to do it for them. RIE advocates that from as early as four to five months of age children benefit and learn from each other. Social learning takes place as children play together and learn how to solve conflicts, with an educarer available for safety and selective intervention.

Our role is to:

  • Allow children to explore each other
  • Give security to children by protecting them from hurting and being hurt
  • Intervene selectively first allowing time for children to settle minor conflicts
  • If intervention is necessary Educarers should remember – gentleness can be taught and reinforced by modelling gentleness, and adults who aggressively approach the “aggressor” only reinforce the behaviour they are trying to change
  • Provide an understanding and gentle atmosphere.
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Dealing with conflicts:
There are certain behaviours that we can expect of the children in our care, for example unwillingness to share a favoured toy, and there are certain behaviours that we cannot allow, for example hurting another child. If you see a conflict developing, you can do the following:

  • Move closer, peacefully, and observe patiently. The children may be able to handle it themselves. If the children are struggling (without harming each other) there is much to learn and they should be allowed to continue.
  • You could then state the conflict in a non-judgmental way, by making a comment such as “both you, Tom, and you, Ben, want the same truck”. This can help to calm the children by letting them know you understand and empathise with their situation.
  • If they are still in conflict, you may look around the room and ask the children if they see another toy (of friend, play space, game etc) they would like to play with?
  • If the conflict continues, you may choose to intervene. You might put away the toy in question (or help a child to move away). In other words you facilitate peace, handle the conflict, and resolve the situation instead of letting the children continue to struggle.

It is important to note that children will have feelings around conflicts and interventions and Educarers should welcome these and create time for connection and co-regulation. It is also important to note that Educarers will know their children best and intervene sooner if they are aware of a child who may be inclined to hurt another child, damage a resource, or hurt themselves.”

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RIE Associate Ruth Anne Hammond shares how carers can balance freedom and intervention during child-child interaction:

“The freedom to explore and interact with other infants is something that we cherish at RIE. It’s surprising how much they really enjoy being together. It starts off – they just gaze at one another and then you might see a smile, and then they reach out and they touch and it’s just magical. And sometimes they make mistakes. Little babies might be interested in the other child’s eyes and maybe start to poke a finger, and so it’s important to be there to intervene if necessary, but you don’t want to give them the idea that there’s anything wrong with wanting to touch and interact with the other child because that is so central to their humanity.

Getting in touch with the other person in that way, that brings on curiosity and interest and wonder. We want to support that, and that’s what we do at RIE. There was a brand new class of infants at the stage of crawling, and they had not been with other infants ever before, and you could tell that they were so amazed that there were other people their size! And I’ll never forget Theodore crawling up to Georgia and kissing her, and she went back for a second kiss. Being together is important for adults, but it’s also really important for even babies.”

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RIE Associate Janet Lansbury discusses practical ways to allow for this safe child-child interaction in the context of babies and infant playgroups. We extrapolate the essence of her points to Preschool age children’s social interactions – below we have replaced “babies” with [children] in multiple places and you can see that the spirit of Janet’s helpful tips remain unchanged:
  1. Provide a familiar, safe place and consistent routine. “Familiarity may breed contempt in adults, but for [children] it is the key to comfort. Knowing what to expect — the usual time, place, and people give a [child] the freedom he needs to explore, engage and participate with confidence. The space should be…fully childproofed so that the children do not have to be observed every second.”
  2. Group children of a similar age or stage of development. “[Child] groups are most productive when the children are within a few months of age, or at a similar stage of development. The [children] can then interact most freely and safely with a minimum of interruptions.”
  3. Carers remain calm and observant. “Parents [at playgroups] are advised to sit, relax, and exude confidence and trust. [Children] are tuned in to our emotional energy and will feel tense or unsure if we do. We should allow the [children] plenty of free space, with one parent staying a bit closer to the action to intervene if necessary. Play time provides a wonderful opportunity for [the children] to initiate separation [from the parents]. They appreciate the independence they feel when they get to choose when to leave the parent’s side. They then signal a need to return to the secure base the parent provides by crying (if they are not mobile yet) creeping, crawling or walking towards them.Be sure to have at least one 10-15 minute period in which parents quietly observe the children. A peaceful atmosphere is less distracting for [children], especially the more sensitive ones who may stay next to their parents, overwhelmed when everyone is talking. This quiet observation period is when parents learn where their children’s interests lie and what they are working on. And it’s usually when magical moments between children occur.”
  4. Intervene only selectively and model gentleness for the children. “The [children] should be observed by a calm parent “facilitator” sitting nearby and allowed to touch each other, but stopped before they hit, pull hair, push, or otherwise hurt one another. Our instinct may be to rush in and move the “instigator’s” hand away abruptly, but if we want gentle children, we are wise to model gentle behavior. Infant expert Magda Gerber taught parents to lightly stroke the side of an infant’s head and softly say, “Gentle” to both babies when we intervene.Older toddlers usually know we want them to be gentle but may choose to test out something less so. In that case, the observant facilitator tries to anticipate, blocking the hit with her hand and saying calmly, but firmly, “I won’t let you hit (push, etc.)” Occasionally, a toddler is having a difficult day, needs shadowing and lots of firm, but matter-of-fact, non-judgmental intervention until he either relinquishes the need to test, or needs his parent to take him home.
  5. “Sportscasting. When a [child] is struggling, whether it is with the workings of his body, a toy or another [child], he is comforted in his situation being acknowledged and understood. “Sportscasting” is the term Magda Gerber used to describe the helpful, non-judgmental account adults are advised to give of their children’s play-by-play. “Ruby, you wanted that. Now George has it. Ruby took it back.” It is especially reassuring for a child to be acknowledged when he is upset — it seems to help him process the feelings and move on. “Sally brushed by you and it bothered you. I saw that. You’re upset.”But there are many more positive, precious moments in safe [child] play dates than difficult ones. [Children] are energized, entertained and educated by their peers. They imitate each other’s activities and vocalizations and take great interest in every interaction.”

It is a joy to behold these interactions and important to take the contents of this post to heart so that we can encourage each child’s social development without hindering them through our own interventions.

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Thank you for reading and look out for our next blog on the fifth principle, “Involvement of the child in all care activities to allow the child to become an active participant rather than a passive recipient.”

Sources:

  • Educaring® Approach – Resources for Infant Educarers®. (2022, December 5). Resources for Infant Educarers® -. https://rie.org/educaring-approach/
  • Gerber, M. (2022, July 26). Magda Gerber’s Basic RIE Principles. Magda Gerber Legacy. https://magdagerber.org/magdas-writings/magda-gerbers-basic-rie-basic-principles
  • RIE Basic Principles. https://rie.org/educaring/rie-basic-principles/
  • https://ruthannehammond.com/2019/11/25/rie-101-1-trust-play-observation/
  • https://amshq.org/Educators/Membership/Member-Resources/The-Montessori-Uninterrupted-Work-Period
  • https://www.janetlansbury.com/2016/03/3-rie-parenting-basics/
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